It’s a hell of a time to be the parent of a college student isn’t it? We’re in the midst of an economic crisis not seen since the Great Depression. Next week we’ll be electing a new president and no matter which party wins, it will be historic. Either we will elect the first African-American president or the first woman Vice-President. What a ride we’re on right now.
Perhaps it’s my wish to see it this way but my sense is that your children are very aware of both the economy and the politics. I must say that I don’t remember my generation being this involved when we were college students. In the middle 70’s we were coming out of the “the sixties” and all that represented. Plus, it was very easy to be in the bubble of college. After all, we only had four TV channels, a handful of radio stations and two local newspapers. Remember those days?
Maybe it’s because of the explosion of information available anywhere, anytime. Maybe it’s that their professors are encouraging, cajoling or even forcing them to know current events. Or maybe, just maybe, it’s you Mom and Dad.
You’ve sacrificed to get your kids to get here to Syracuse University so that they could get a college education. Along the way you probably discussed the issues of the day. You modeled the behavior that being informed and taking an active part in this democracy is not only noble, it’s expected. You set up expectations that you’d like to see met. But ultimately, it’s their choice isn’t it? They decide how active and how involved they get. Your kids decide how much effort to put into thinking and doing. And from what I see, so far, they, and in turn you, get an A.
Nice work Mom and Dad, you’re raising decent, hard-working and informed citizens. Now if we could only get them to get enough sleep, clean their rooms and do their laundry and call home more often.
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